MEETING MY SISTER'S SUITOR

lingaw kai mi pag friday last week kai birthday sa akong neice. then surprisingly ni adto ang suitor sa akong igsoon na babaye. mao d-i iya ko gi textsan na pa ulion ug sayo unya palimpyohon daw. among gi tudahan ug interview iyang suitor labi na kai wla naka adto sila si mama ug papa. samthang nagpaabot mi sa akong usa ka igsoon ako sang gi interview ang lalaki kai akong igsoon wla man nahimutang nagsige man ug prepare sa pagkaon kai ako gyud daw iyang pa entertainon. So baw sab tawn kog interview niya.

note (ang suitor ni sa akong igsoon na girl)
Ako: unsa d-i imong family name?
Suitor: santillan
Ako: Ah indot sab kag apelyedo
Suitor: ngano man, dili sikat?
Ako: ah dili man nakadungog naman ko ana nga family name kadaghan, taga asa d-i ka?
Suitor: taga Lutupan, Toledo
Ako: ay duol ra d-i, lumad jud ka nga taga didto?
Suitor: dili man kai taga Bantayan Island man among kaliwat
Ako: Mao ba? indot ra ba nang Bantayan Island, naka adto naka sa Sugar beach? nakaila kag mga Campos, Salazar ug Jipos?
Suitor: Oo indot bitaw didto mangadto nya ta ninyo, wla man koi kaila kaayo didto kai bata pako namalhin naman mi dire sa Toledo ug puyo. dili ra ba mi duol sa dagat
Ako: Unsa d-i imong work?
Suitor: Seaferer
Ako: mao nang every port report?
Suitor: heheheh oo mao na pero dili sab tawn na tinuod sa ubang mga lalaki
Ako: Unsa man imong work sa barko
Suitor: tig fix ko sa mga electical problems labi na ang mga guba nga magnetic doors
Ako: mao ba? indota gud nimo ug work dili man kaayo bug-at
Suitor: bug-at sab oi kai maguba man mi sa mga doors if ang mga keys nahabilin sa sulod unya 24 hours man mi on call basta needed me.
Ako: sayon ra bya maguba ug doors patiran ra nimo then bunalan mana guba na
Suitor: heheheheh dili man namo ingun ana-on pag guba kai sensitive man ang mga doors
Ako: pwede ra ko mangapply anang parehas sa imong trabaho?
Suitor: mga lalaki ra man sab ilang gipang hire para ani nga work
Ako: (unsa pa man akong pangutana ha? di nalang ko mangutana sa edad kai kahibalo ko magulang pa ni nako) gigutom naka? paaboton sa nato akong usa ka igsoon ha? paguslti lang ug gigutom ka kai sukaran lang ka namo
Suitor: aw wla pa man ko gigutom ni snacks naman mi sa imong igsoon ganina
Ako: (oi nagdate date na d-i ning duha)ah ok, cge tan-aw lag sag t.v kai wla nakoi pangutana pasensya na ha kai tabi-an kai ko

Pag-abot na sa akong usa ka igsoon ni eat nami unsa sa opposite silang duha sa akong igsoon nagtupad unya kami naghuot sa pikas.

Ako: kaon sir ha kai basin ma pasmo ka layo para ba imong byahe padulong sa lutupan
Suitor: hehehe oo bitaw mo kaon gyud ko
Akong usa ka igsoon: bitaw kaon dira ug tarong ayaw kabalaka ig uli nimo padalhan ra ka namo ug bring home aron di ma problema imong mama, wla man kaha kai curfew?
Suitor: ehhehe wala man sab, oi kamo nag huot man mo dira?
Akong igsoon nga usa: ok ra kaayog magsikit mi dire mga igsoon bya mi
Ako: pwede ra sab mo magsikit dira
(everybody was laughing)

Ug di nalang nako i asoy ang kinagrabihan nga interview nga gihimo sa akong ig agaw nga ni adto sa balay kai .............. pinaka grabe nato ...............

may gani patient ra kaayo ang suitor sa akong sister nakasabot ra siya nga mga kalog ang silingan sa mga kalag. abi namo nalain nato siya sa among kakulit niya labi na sa akong ig agaw nga iffeminate. nakigdate pa man hinuon pagka ugma ana ............. nakulba-an nalang ko kai dugay kaayo na uli akong igsoon labi na pag text nako wla gyud ni reply nako. pero nahuwasan ra akong kakulba pag uli niya.

KID MAO NI AKONG ANSWER

If swimming is good for your figure, how do you explain whales?

Hello Kid i I told kuya nga very easy lang ni i answer pero dili siguro.


Swimming is good for my figure? is this a fact? Anyway i believe that swimming is a very good exercise for human beings to become physically fit. Ma exercise man gud ang tanang muscles sa body ug ma burn ang calories. dili lang ang whole body pati na ang heart nato ani ma exercise, mawala ang heart aches hehehehe. I suppose this information is intended to inform people the fundamental way of maintaining a physically fit figure and that this notion does not necessarily apply to underwater creatures.


Pero I do not want to deviate from the question ……….. so I’ll answer nalang. How do I explain whales nga sige silag swimming pero dagko man sila? Oh!this is really funny. So how would I classify man d-I a whale having a good figure? It would be very unfair if ako sab silang I compare sa lawas sa usa ka tawo. I think whales are physically fit and they are perhaps the sexiest underwater creature (kisa nasayod highly admired sila sa tanang fishes ug creatures sa kadagatan). Heheheheh ay nalang mo ug angal kai mao ra na akong matubag.

Ani nalang ang perception man gud sa tawo nga nice figure kai kanang “coca cola body” slender or slim, curves are seen. Sakto ko? Mao man gud na gi emphasized sa TV commercials. However, there are chubby, or mga dambuhala nga mga people pero they look very attractive and sexy, perhaps this apply to the whales as well. Honestly lahi man gud ang akong perception sa good figure. I don't evaluate a figure by just looking at the person's physical appearance. According to plato there is something more to the form or shape. Siguro it's time to change our perception kon unsa ang good figure para nato.

I OWE ALL OF YOU MY REPLY

I apologize, I was not able to reply to all your messages last Friday. Our company's internet connection was quite very slow, my blog's chat box page did not initialize.

5 Oct 07, 07:47
batang buotan: good morning weng.. dont worry about virus.. there are lot of them.. hehehe.. just be careful with it

@Kuya: Kuya mag worry jud kog virus kai dili lang ang PC namo ang ma virusan kai basin pati mind sa akong niece nga minor de edad pa intawn magka virus unya sa mga porn nga ilang gipangtan-aw.

kid: morning weng.. hmmm, jst try to understand ur li'l brother.. he's not a gay, u even hav to be thankful with that.. that kind of stuffs is very normal for us.. try to think if he's a gay
5 Oct 07, 08:08
kid: mas gwapa pa siguro siya ninyo, mas arte, mas sosyal.. see? d only difference is, he wasn't able to clear the history of your internet browser..
5 Oct 07, 08:10
kid: i know dis sounds absurd to you but this is how a normal boy behave when he's still an adolescent.. what u can do for now is, install an anti-virus scanner
5 Oct 07, 08:11
kid: tell ur bro to clear the history of your browser, or you can set the security settings of the browser to block some sites that will make u feel sick.. :)

@ KID: am actually thankful that i have 2 brothers, (we are actually close to each other and they know me very well), sa una kato wala pa na tawo akong brother envious kai ko sa mga friends nako nga naay igsoon nga lalaki (it was my family's wish nga naa jud lalaki sa among mga magsoon) but i am more envious of my friends nga naay KUYA. how i wish i had a big brother whom i can confront, talk and ask a lot of things about men's nature other than those explain in theories. actually i have a lot of effeminate cousins and friends and i have no problem with them (i admire their ways, they are humorous in nature). If my brother happens to be one of them I am probably very close to him ( he cant keep a lot of secrets labi na kai kulit kai ko and he would have been very expressive ). We have one minor member in the family here, my niece is only 12 years old and i did not like my brother bringing his friends here watching pornography without even considering that aspect (i dont think so that our house is the appropriate place for those activities although i failed somehow to remind him about this). I still would not tolerate this one, it will never be ok with me. Well i have been installing virus scanner, blocking sites and clearing browser histories but still they uninstall it and unblock porn sites. They are actually street smarts and are very much aware that porn sites are virus carrying. They are more knowledgeable about computer problems and they knew very well how to fix them (i think it's about time to outsmart their knowledge hehehehe).

5 Oct 07, 08:20
girlfromdipolog: hehehe.. bad trip jud ang virus
5 Oct 07, 08:20
girlfromdipolog: hey kid.. what's wrong with being gay, huh? weng, damage has been done. start all over na lang and secure your pc with anti-virus. rent a dvd porn, as as a sorry gesture -- it's safer that way.


@GF: heheheheh (ur funny!!!!) thanks for your suggestion, i would have followed your advice and find a DVD shop that has a lot of porn materials for rent and would have choosen the video that is highly rented. in that way i would perhaps amaze (if not shame) my brother. but thank GOD we do not have DVD player at home.

Honestly inner struggle ni nako nga ma link ang akong knowledge sa human sexuality in Psychological Perspective and Catholic Perspective. Maglisud ko ug link sa duha sa context sa mga singles ari ra gyud sa marital context nako ma connect ang Psychological and Catholic perspective of Human Sexuality. I respect all points shared above and i'd like to agree with kuya in one of his comments nga people can watch straight porn materials maturely,without malice or being allured with them. (we have been evaluating movies with explicit sexual scenes in our physiological psychology class way back in college. Yes exactly there is nothing wrong with that)

INNER HOUSECLEANING

it's 1:00 a.m. here sa akong computer clock pero i'm still downloading all important software devices for my PC, right now im instaling HP Printer, next ani ang microsoft Office. Di pa ko matulog kai i feel so bad ang angry inside "i don't like sleeping with my heart aches". so i'd rather stay up late finish what am doing to cool down. just as im doing some computer restoration i will also do some inner restoration sa akong gibating kalagot. yesterday morning i felt so bad at my younger brother because he got mad when i woke him up. turno turno man gud mi ug gamit sa banyo siya dapat ang mas una nako maligo because his classes would start at 7:30 a.m but he got angry at me waking him up and demanding him to get fast. there are five of us here in the house and all of us will be moving out early in the morning to attend to our daily duties. schedules must be strictly and religiously followed. anyway, that early morning bad feelings were left in the house. i had a good time in my workplace. but later in the evening when i arrived home i got munch through with my younger brother again. He had the PC infected with viruses. I knew it was him, again watching porn materials in the net.i saw this familiar porn site url again in the address section. i got so mad at him that i had to utter the ugliest words i could blow just to release all anger inside of me. when i tried logging in to my YM for our online conference with my close friends who are now working in other places they have to tell me "what are you sending" " you are sending me a virus" "oh this is porn". Shocked of their reaction all i could do is to apologize "Huh! oh sorry this is my first time to encounter this kind of problem,i apologize. I think it's my younger brother again watching porn sites." And one of my friend told me " oh ikaw weng ha.. defensive.. maski siya gani na ni watch". i got crazy with that comment pero way nakoi mahimo. Then i have to send all my YM friends a message not to open the virus entry in their chat boxes. i also received the virus entry message. then bang!!!!........... before i could finish informing all friends the PC log off and could not anymore recover. and so i did a PC restoration. i was feeling so so so bad awhile ago and i was so mad at my brother labi na ni ingun akong neice nga he invited a classmate dire sa balay ganina and they were using the PC and they were having fun. nisamot pa gyud akong kasuko kai ni ingun pa gyud sya nga she saw my brother and his barkadas one time watching pornography in the net.lagot kaayo ko. may nalang gani gi textsan ko sa akong mga friends to calm down. our house has been an avenue for all of these ugly things?. this is too much. as in naglagot gyud ko. why man ko naglagot kaayo? nawala man gud tanan akong saved files (mao gyud kaha), kai wla ko ka apil sa conference with my friends (sure ka mao ni?), kapoi ug restore usik kaayo sa time (sakto ka kapoi jud) or basin unconsciously i am not only angry at my brother but sa akong self sab because i have had an inner struggle with internal house cleaning especially my thoughts" if my brother view pornography in the net and he was public about it and i myself have tried creating a compartment in my mind for sensual scenes will it make a difference?. perhaps i am angry of my ownself as well ............. right now calm nako ug mo retire nako. i have to talk to my brother nalang unya.
GOD BLESS US ALL!

BENEFITS OF PURITY

from Bo Sanchez book " How to Find Your One True Love"
Some people say virginity is no longer important nowadays. But being pure is one of the best things you can do for your life!

Some Practical Benefits

1 You save yourself from out-of-wedlock pregnancy
and all things connected with this like early marriage, money problems for the needs of baby

2. You are not tempted to abort or murder your baby

3. You save yourself from venereal disease.

4. You are able to discern if your partner is really a marriage material - one cant think straight if testosterone is flowing abundantly through his/her veins. Compatibility does not mean sexual compatibility. Both partners need to explore their minds, personalities, preferences, and not explore thier bodies

5. You don't get trapped with a person - just because you had sex.
i heard this line from a client " My girlfriend loves me, and the proof of it was that she gave her body to me" but she left him for a French national.
"he was the first person to touched me" i consider him my husband already. but he dump her for another woman
"my girlfriend and i already did it" i cant leave her anymore - even if he's realized that he doesn't like her anymore or feel that other women may be suited for his future wife and mother of his children he simply resigns his fate with this woman. is there anything more pathetic than that?

6. You don't feel cheap - like used rag.
you don't feel like your a second hand material but don't worry i believe you can and will find someone who will accept and love you

7. You create urgency for your man to take your relationship to the next level
because he wants more "access" from you, he'll have to commit more - and for you, that commitment is matrimony
Some women give their boyfriends free access to their bodies. No wonder the guy has no urgency to get married. Why buy the car if he can test-drive it anytime he wants?

If you are no longer a virgin

If you have already lost your virginity, here is some good news:
You can ask God for forgiveness, choose not to have sex until marriage - and receive a second virginity. - it will no longer be physical but spiritual in nature. Tell GOd you want to have a beautiful marriage and family. He will forgive you. He will restore you.

JUSTICE TRAP

permi ko kadungog ani nga statement "asa man ang hustisya?" " its unfair"' you have no right"

Gi condition na ta aron sa pagpangita ug hustisya sa kinabuhi ug kon dili ni nato ma-angkon o makita, masuko ta, mabalaka ta, o maguol ta. Sa tinuod lang wla gyuy perfect justice in the real world. Ang ebidensiya mao ni :

ang mga langgam mo kaon sa mga worms. (dili ni fair sa worms),
ang mga spiders mo kaon ug flies . (dili ni fair sa flies)
ang mga baki mo kaon sa lamok. ( dili ni fair sa mga lamok)
ang mga mice mo eat ug bugs (dili ni fair sa bugs)

makita ra nato sa kinaiyahan nga wla gyuy tukma nga hustisya dinhi sa kalibutan
typhoons, turnadoes, tsunamis, floods draughts are all unfair.
are men and women equal? precisely they are not "it isn't fair" well who says there is such thing as fairness in this world. justice is just a concept and reality speaks clearly that there isn't such a perfect justice in the world. would that make one unhappy and unfulfilled just because he/she doesn't achieve justice? i don't think so. so do not punish yourself with unhappiness or negative emotions if you fail to see evidence of the justice that you so futilely demand.

ang atong kultura nagsaad ug hustisya. ang mga politiko mo saad atol sa pangampanya "we need equality and justice for all" pero kada adlaw,kada tuig, kada dekada ang kakuwang sa hustisya nagpadayon. na sa ato pa ang ka walay hustisya sa kalibutan makanunayon. mao nga dawata nalang nga wla gyuy hustisya dinhi sa kalibutan. pero sa imong kaalam makapili ka unsaon pag pildi sa inhustisya ug naa kai gahum sa pagbalibad aron dili ka masakitan niini. you can decide not to be psychologically defeated by it.

so kon imo i kompara imo kaugalingon sa uban then you are playing the "it's not fair game". ang pinaka simple lang nga kamatuoran nga kita managlahi ug kon ikaw nagtan-aw sa imong kaugalingon then you will bring about positive self-changes ug imong sab nga nssalikway ang oportunidad nga ikaw maglagot sa imong kahimtang nga dili susama sa uban.

so get rid of the need to compare yourself with others and to use their status as a barometer of your own joy. it's not the injustice that counts, it's what you do about it.

OCTOBER FEST - ROSARY FEST

October fest? wow its a holy rosary month, a whole month of prayer gathering. Nagsugod ko ug kat-on ug pray sa Rosary sa wla pako nag eskwela. Akong lola ang nagtudlo namo. Siya gyud ang mag lead sa family rosary sa una then pahimangnu-an jud mi nga naa gyud sa state of prayer basta magrosaryo na. Kaming iyang mga apo eager kaayo makahibalo. Mao nga maningkamot gyud mi nga makakat-on. Dili tinuora smooth permi among pangadye unsahay masayop mi ug lead ug mangatawa dayon,unsahay magduka ug unsahay sab tapulan mo luhod. maligas tinuora mi sa among pag pangadye, or ma distract pero para nako mao ni siya ang usa sa mga nakatabang aron peaceful, happy, lig-on ug whole among family. God has been blessing us and i believe that He is happy to see us gathered as one in front of our altar, united in prayers. And we find so much joy doing our family rosary every time we are together.i learned to love this very simple prayer in fact part na ni siya sa akong life kai mo remind ni nako sa mga panahon diin kaming tanang sakop sa banay nagkatigum ug nagkahi-usa which is seldom na gyud mahitabo in a year. i only have one weapon to bring everyday and that is my holy rosary. and if while am praying i get distracted i just have to include and offer to God the things that disturb me.

Katong gi slash akong bag sa jeepney wla gyuy nadala ang kawatan kai sa iyang pagisi sa akong bag ang nigimaw akong rosary dili akong pitaka nga wlay kwarta ug dili sab akong cell phone nga karaan.

Si Pope John Paul II ang pinaka numero uno nga mag pray sa rosary sa buhi pa sya ug maski tiguwang na kaayo to sya magluhod gyud to aron sa pag ampo sa iyang daily rosary. Ug according to writers on May 31, 1981 Pope John Paul II was shot and severely wounded in an assassination attempt by Mehmet Ali Agca. He attributed claims that he escaped death in the assassination attempt due to a miracle worked by the Blessed Virgin Mary.

AND SO WE GREET OUR MOTHER BY SAYING
HAIL MARY FULL OF GRACE!