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Wednesday, November 28, 2007
DILI HINGPIT ANG KATAPUSAN
Ako lang idaklit ang sugilanon nga gi estorya ni padre: usa ka adlaw ni ana nasakit ang bana ug ang iyang asawa ang ni atiman pag-ayo niya. ang bana nibati nga siya himatyon na tungod sa kaluya sa iyang lawas ug mao to nga may gikompisal siya sa iyang asawa
Bana: Dai aduna unta koi isulti nimo
Asawa: ayaw nalang dong pagsulti hilom nalang dira.
Bana: dai mangayo unta ko ug pasaylo nimo sa akong mga sala diha nimo
Asawa: Basta kalimti nalang tong tanan, ayaw nalng to hisguti
Bana: Dili gyud dai kinahanglan mahibalo ka sa tanan
Asawa: Ah basta kalimti nalng tong tanan kai nakahibalo nako sa tanan
Bana: Nkahibalo naka dai nga ang atong katabang sa una nahimo nakong kabit, ug hasta sab imong igsoon, ug gani may anak kos gawas?
Asawa: oo nkahibalo nako ana tanan
Bana: Dugay nakang nakahibalo ani dai?
Asawa: Oo dugay na sa wala pa tika hinay hinayi ug hilo
kamo nalay bahala sa ending aning maong estorya
Sa kinabuhi, ang sakit o malipayong katapusan dili maoy hingpit nga katapusan, kon dili mga yugto lamang sa dalan sa kinabuhi tungod kai aduna pay laing anib sa matag sugilanon. Taas pa kaayo ang atong pagalatason, aduna pay daghang mga pagtuis, ug pagtuyok. Sa atong panaw dili gyud malikayan nga adunay mga yugto nga makalimtan nato ang Ginoo ug lain na ang mamahimong sentro sa atong kinabuhi. Bisan kanus-a taklahaw kini nga mahitabo sa atong kinabuhi ma bata o tigulang. Ug kini mao ang kamatuoran.
Ma atubang nato kining maong kamatuoran kon kita maminaw ug mo abli sa atong mga kasingkasing diin kita makadungong sa Labawng Makagagahum nga nakighinabi kanato ilabi na kon kita nahitumpalak sa mga dapit nga mangitngit. Makahimo kita sa pag-atubang sa kamatuoran kon kita maalamon sa pag-usab sa atong kinabuhi --- ug kon sa sayo pa permamenti nato kining gipaningkamotan. ug sa ato unyang pagpaningkamot ang Diyos naga-uban ug nagatabang kanato.
Bana: Dai aduna unta koi isulti nimo
Asawa: ayaw nalang dong pagsulti hilom nalang dira.
Bana: dai mangayo unta ko ug pasaylo nimo sa akong mga sala diha nimo
Asawa: Basta kalimti nalang tong tanan, ayaw nalng to hisguti
Bana: Dili gyud dai kinahanglan mahibalo ka sa tanan
Asawa: Ah basta kalimti nalng tong tanan kai nakahibalo nako sa tanan
Bana: Nkahibalo naka dai nga ang atong katabang sa una nahimo nakong kabit, ug hasta sab imong igsoon, ug gani may anak kos gawas?
Asawa: oo nkahibalo nako ana tanan
Bana: Dugay nakang nakahibalo ani dai?
Asawa: Oo dugay na sa wala pa tika hinay hinayi ug hilo
kamo nalay bahala sa ending aning maong estorya
Sa kinabuhi, ang sakit o malipayong katapusan dili maoy hingpit nga katapusan, kon dili mga yugto lamang sa dalan sa kinabuhi tungod kai aduna pay laing anib sa matag sugilanon. Taas pa kaayo ang atong pagalatason, aduna pay daghang mga pagtuis, ug pagtuyok. Sa atong panaw dili gyud malikayan nga adunay mga yugto nga makalimtan nato ang Ginoo ug lain na ang mamahimong sentro sa atong kinabuhi. Bisan kanus-a taklahaw kini nga mahitabo sa atong kinabuhi ma bata o tigulang. Ug kini mao ang kamatuoran.
Ma atubang nato kining maong kamatuoran kon kita maminaw ug mo abli sa atong mga kasingkasing diin kita makadungong sa Labawng Makagagahum nga nakighinabi kanato ilabi na kon kita nahitumpalak sa mga dapit nga mangitngit. Makahimo kita sa pag-atubang sa kamatuoran kon kita maalamon sa pag-usab sa atong kinabuhi --- ug kon sa sayo pa permamenti nato kining gipaningkamotan. ug sa ato unyang pagpaningkamot ang Diyos naga-uban ug nagatabang kanato.
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
ONCE TASTED ALWAYS WANTED
- Kon mo kaon kag pan gikan sa Tinong's Bakeshop mao ni ang mahitabo "once tasted always wanted"
- Kon mo kaon kag Senior Pedro nga inasal nga manok mao gihapon"once tasted always wanted"
- Kon mo suway sab daw ka ug sex mao sab ni ang mahitabo " once tasted always wanted"
- Apan kon makatilaw ka sa kaayo sa Ginoo mao ni ang mahitabo " once tasted never wanted"
And sad to say I am one of them. Many look at me as morally superior or an enlightened being and this is obviously self-approving. However, I got a harden heart against the least of my suffering brothers and sisters who are in need.
Oh God help me to open my heart and extend my hands to those who need help. AMEN
Monday, November 26, 2007
PDA
Lambing-lambing sa sulod sa jeepney
Gahapon adunay duha ka estudyante sa kolehiyo nag lambing labingan sa jeepney. Ginaksanay, patulog-tulog sa bukton sa lalaki ang bababye, pa kiss kiss sa agtang, dayon katawa-katawa ug estorya estorya murag sila lang ang mga tawo sa jeeepney. Ug ang senior citizen nga tupad sa duha ka linalang baw na jud ug tutok, lagot na kaayo iyang nawong kuwang nalang gamay masagpag-an niya ang duha may nalang gani ni gaan ang trapiko kai ni naog na ang tigulang ug ni ingun jud "hay salamat abot na jud ko", pero sa wla pa siya ni naug iya jud gi kusmoran sa nawong ang mga estudyante. (sayang sayang lang si manang sa iyang sapot kai wla jud kahibalo ang duha nga aduna d-i gi hilasan sa ilang gipangbuhat).
Well, its none of my business actually if i see lovers who express their intimacy inside the jeepney or in the public. I don't really care. Its their life not mine however i cannot also blame if there are people who would feel uncomfortable with PDA because people are raise differently. Why some couples insist to share it with the entire world? Is it really a cool thing to do in public?
Well, its none of my business actually if i see lovers who express their intimacy inside the jeepney or in the public. I don't really care. Its their life not mine however i cannot also blame if there are people who would feel uncomfortable with PDA because people are raise differently. Why some couples insist to share it with the entire world? Is it really a cool thing to do in public?
Sunday, November 25, 2007
SENSE OF HUMOR
The root form of humor is umar in Latin. It means to be fluid and flexible like water and that is what humor is about. It’s staying flexible so you don’t get broken by the difficulties you confront. Being flexible enables your creative mind to stay open so that you can still come up with solutions even in painful situations.
Kon ikaw adunay sense of humor o gahum sa pagpakatawa swerte ka kai daghan kang mamahimong amiga ug amigo ug daghang ang mo abiba ug magtagad kanimo. ang pagpakatawa usa ka talento ug kina-iya nga dili kinahanglang eswelahan. kon ikaw nabantug na nga komedyante tanan nimong isulti maski dili ka kombinsido nga kataw-anan makapakatawa o mkatarog gyud sa imong tigpaminaw o tigbasa. ngano man kaha ni? kini tungod kai ang mga tawo nga nga nagtamod kanimo na kondisyon na nga imong mga mensahe dinaklitan gyud ug komedya.Ang sense of humor usa sa pinaka importante nga kina-iya sa tanang malipayon ug malampuson nga mga tawo. Sa mga wlay sense of humor basaha ninyo ang pama-agi unsaon sa pagpalambo sa maong kina-iya.
Joe Love said a good sense of humor helps you to solve problems, improve your relationships, and have a positive outlook on the virtually every aspect of your life. A sense of humor is a very particular developed sense of perspective that allows you to access joy even in adversity. It is about first dealing with the problem and then putting a positive spin on it. When you look at things with a sense of humor perspective, it enables you to have a remarkable capacity to control how you see the things that are going on in your life. You cannot control the external events in your life, but you can control how you look at them.
According to Jose Javier Reyes of the Philippines, laughter is often the way Filipinos cope with natural catastrophes, overcome the burdens of everyday life and cushion the impact of events over which they feel they no longer can control.
Filipino humor is often self-deprecating. It is another weapon in face-saving. By turning a mistake or a transgression into a light moment, the teller relieves the injured party of having to correct him and allows him to own up to his mistake in a way that allows him to also save face. What may appear to an outside observer as another example of Filipino superficiality, making fun of a situation which in fact might be extremely serious, is really an intricate social contract between the two parties that will allow them to continue to interelate in the future. In adjudging Filipino behavior, one must remember that Filipino society is made up of "closed circles of relationships" and each group member must be careful never to burn his bridges with other group members.
Finally, humor in all its guises and uses, binds Filipinos together, transforming an experience into an event that can be shared by all. When Filipinos laugh at something that is unique to them, their laughter becomes an assertion of their unity as a people.
Develop your sense of humor
Misery is not subtle. Pain is not subtle. Joy, humor, and laughter are very often subtle. So you have to pay attention to them to start activating them into your life by listing all the things that makes you happy.
Making a list of all the things that you enjoy and put a smile on your face will not only help develop your sense of humor but it also gives you the opportunity to find out more about the people in your life and what makes them happy and this will enable you to help them develop their sense of humor. When you are able to give other people joy and put a smile on their face, especially when they need it most, you will be giving them the greatest gift you can give.
Mao ni ang mga butang nga makapalipay nako:
LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGHLAUGH LAUGH LAUGH
Kon ikaw adunay sense of humor o gahum sa pagpakatawa swerte ka kai daghan kang mamahimong amiga ug amigo ug daghang ang mo abiba ug magtagad kanimo. ang pagpakatawa usa ka talento ug kina-iya nga dili kinahanglang eswelahan. kon ikaw nabantug na nga komedyante tanan nimong isulti maski dili ka kombinsido nga kataw-anan makapakatawa o mkatarog gyud sa imong tigpaminaw o tigbasa. ngano man kaha ni? kini tungod kai ang mga tawo nga nga nagtamod kanimo na kondisyon na nga imong mga mensahe dinaklitan gyud ug komedya.Ang sense of humor usa sa pinaka importante nga kina-iya sa tanang malipayon ug malampuson nga mga tawo. Sa mga wlay sense of humor basaha ninyo ang pama-agi unsaon sa pagpalambo sa maong kina-iya.
Joe Love said a good sense of humor helps you to solve problems, improve your relationships, and have a positive outlook on the virtually every aspect of your life. A sense of humor is a very particular developed sense of perspective that allows you to access joy even in adversity. It is about first dealing with the problem and then putting a positive spin on it. When you look at things with a sense of humor perspective, it enables you to have a remarkable capacity to control how you see the things that are going on in your life. You cannot control the external events in your life, but you can control how you look at them.
According to Jose Javier Reyes of the Philippines, laughter is often the way Filipinos cope with natural catastrophes, overcome the burdens of everyday life and cushion the impact of events over which they feel they no longer can control.
Filipino humor is often self-deprecating. It is another weapon in face-saving. By turning a mistake or a transgression into a light moment, the teller relieves the injured party of having to correct him and allows him to own up to his mistake in a way that allows him to also save face. What may appear to an outside observer as another example of Filipino superficiality, making fun of a situation which in fact might be extremely serious, is really an intricate social contract between the two parties that will allow them to continue to interelate in the future. In adjudging Filipino behavior, one must remember that Filipino society is made up of "closed circles of relationships" and each group member must be careful never to burn his bridges with other group members.
Finally, humor in all its guises and uses, binds Filipinos together, transforming an experience into an event that can be shared by all. When Filipinos laugh at something that is unique to them, their laughter becomes an assertion of their unity as a people.
Develop your sense of humor
Misery is not subtle. Pain is not subtle. Joy, humor, and laughter are very often subtle. So you have to pay attention to them to start activating them into your life by listing all the things that makes you happy.
Making a list of all the things that you enjoy and put a smile on your face will not only help develop your sense of humor but it also gives you the opportunity to find out more about the people in your life and what makes them happy and this will enable you to help them develop their sense of humor. When you are able to give other people joy and put a smile on their face, especially when they need it most, you will be giving them the greatest gift you can give.
Mao ni ang mga butang nga makapalipay nako:
- talking / listening to my loved ones
- eating together with my family
- nature seeing
- badminton/soccer/basketball
- planting flowers and fruit trees
- watching funny /action movies
- visiting different churches/catholic congregations
- talking and listening to kids
- listening to Bo Sanchez
- reading funny articles
- talking to my friends
- drawing/sketching/designing
- writing anything
- walking in the rain
- playing in the beach
- sleeping under the tree
- talking to old people
- eating strawberry or double dutch light ice cream
- wearing rugged clothes
- sewing/ cross stitching
- cooking/baking
- driving
- teasing my siblings/neice
- climbing mountains
- biking
- listening to Christian, worship, slow rock,and alternative music
- picture taking
- eating pineapple. ripe mangoes, young coconut and guavas
LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGH LAUGHLAUGH LAUGH LAUGH
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Saturday, November 24, 2007
DEADLINES, VIOLATIONS, LATE
Ngano kaha nga kasagaran sa mga Filipinos ganahan man ug deadlines, violations, ug late? Pagka Biyernes grabe kaayo ko ka puno sa trabaho kai katong adlawa katapusang adlaw to sa pagfile sa application for college onsite admission testing. Sa akong ihap sa mga applicants pag Huwebes 40 pa kabuok pero pag Biyernes ni saka sa 144. Nahug nalang ug wla nakoi pani udtohay tungod sa pag asikaso sa ilang mga documento ug pag issue sa ilang test permits. Na atol pa gyud nga ako rang usa sa opisina atong higayona.
Ngano kaha nga ingun ani man ang kina-iya sa kasagaran nato? Ganahan nga unya unya-on nalang ang mga trabaho, ganahan nga sa katapusang adlaw nalang mo adto? Sakit ba ni o culture lang gyud natong mga Filipinos.
Kon dili na kaabot sa deadline kasagaran nato mo violate nalang sa rule ug gamiton dayon ang gahum sa negosasyon ug areglo.
Pero kani ang ma late gyud mao ni ang pinaka grabe nga sakit sa mga Pinoy. Basta ang 8 o clock 9 o clock na.
Mao nga pag adlaw na gyud sa examination adunay pa gyuy ni hangyo nga mo apply, aduna pa gyuy as in late na gyud ni lapas na sa deadline. Ug daghan usab ang na dugay ug abot sa testing venue.
Akong gipaningkamotan nga mo simang ko sa unsay norm or culture sa kasagaran nato aron aduna usay asenso kining nasura. (hay tinuod kaha ni? ). Mo asenso ka kon ikaw determinado sa imong pag lambo. Bangon FIlipino ug pagmata na.
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